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Caledonia, I’m going home!

This entry was posted on Thursday, August 11th, 2011 by Frances Ryan.
Tags: youtube, travel, scotland, school, sad, moving, immigration, happy, giggles, friends, fear, family, faith

Wow! Can you believe that I’m flying ‘home’ to Scotland tomorrow? Or should I say today, since it’s past midnight in the homeland (why am I still awake!?) and morning time in Scotland.

I have to be honest and admit that today sort of snuck up on me. The past two+ years have been so filled with grief and stress and worry that even though I’ve been looking forward to my return to my beloved adopted Caledonia (that means Scotland) I haven’t quite allowed myself to believe this is happening.

I’m happy. I’m sad. I’m excited. I’m frightened. And I’m everything else in between.

I can’t help but think that my goodbyes over the past few weeks might be my final goodbyes. I can’t help but think that I don’t know what my future will hold when I arrive—and I can’t help but worry that it will be a failure. I can’t help but think about how much I will miss my Mom and Dad and my nieces and nephews and my sisters. I will miss my friends and my home country very much.

But at the same time, I can’t help but think of the joyful song my heart has always sung when I’m in Scotland. I can’t help but think of the enjoyment I will find in studying  (no, really!). I can’t help but think about the joys of spending time with my new friends and my wonderful in-laws.

It’s been an agonizing journey, and I know that the pain isn’t over. I have no expectations of a perfect world waiting for me. I don’t think that my move will erase the pain or make my world instantly better. But I do know that I need to do this. And I do know that my heart and soul need this to help me ‘get better’.

I am leaving behind a world I’ve known for my entire life, and heading to the world where I feel I belong. And I’m so very ready for it!

Caledonia you’re calling me, and now I’m going home!

Comments

Beautiful!

I will really miss you, but I feel close to you through this blog.

Have a wonderful trip, be safe, welcome home.
Ant E

by ant elizabeth at 12:23pm (GMT) on August 11th, 2011

I agree with ant elizabeth. I feel we have grown close through blogging, and that our friendship will only strengthen over time. Even miles and oceans apart! I can’t wait to hear about EVERYTHING!!!

by Amy at 2:22pm (GMT) on August 11th, 2011

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