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This entry was posted on Wednesday, October 27th, 2010 by Frances Ryan.
Tags: writing, silly, happy, giggles, foster kid, ego, drawings, crochet, arts & crafts

In the evenings, you will quite often find me and the kid in the living room not talking*: Her on the love seat reading or drawing; me on the couch crocheting, blogging, or—most recently—sketching and drawing. And you can bet that at some point she will come over and start snooping at what I’m doing with great curiosity.

After she goes to bed, I will sit and continue my evening’s project for a couple of hours and by the time I wake up the next morning, I’ve almost forgotten what I was working on the night before. But not the kid. No, the kid will ask several times as we’re getting ready to leave the house if she can see what I’ve been working on. And when she finally gets to (after, of course, she gets ready for school) she is full of enthusiasm for what is, at best, mediocrity at its most average.

I’m always so pleased that she enjoys my creative outputs, but it never truly dawned on me how much impact I have on her until this weekend. As I sat working on my silliness coursework she came and looked over my shoulder and commented with awe at my water painting before asking if she could break out her watercolours and do some painting of her own.

To the left is my painting. To the right is the kid’s.

     

I am flattered and humbled. And a little afraid to think that there is another child who’s life is being impacted by me. (I think I do OK. I’ve yet to completely screw up any of my nieces and nephews at least…)

* It sounds like we just ignore each other, but we don’t. By this time, we’ve endured a 30-mile drive from town home where we chat, chat, chat. Then we enjoy a nice, home-cooked dinner at the table where we chat, chat, chat some more. Then, we chat when she goes to bed, right before our prayers. So we talk. Just not at this point in the evening.

Comments

That’s so special. Treasure it!

xx

by Rebecca at 1:41pm (GMT) on October 27th, 2010

*Just because it seems that you ignore each other, that doesn’t make it true.  One of the things that attracted me to your dad is that I felt comfortable with him even when we weren’t talking.  I never felt awkward around him. 

And, I love that the kid copies you!

by Mom at 8:20pm (GMT) on October 27th, 2010

Very cool…  and the two of you being able to sit in a room and not talk shows how comfortable you are together!!!
Sometimes just having another warm body in the room is enough…

by Jo at 3:46pm (GMT) on October 28th, 2010

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