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Tag: widowhood

My life as Just Frances is quite intertwined with my life as a widow, so this is a well-used tag. Posts here will be related to grief, but also to the re-imagining of my life as “just” Frances.

Posted on26 April 2026Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Counting widowhood by years

by Just Frances2 Comments on Counting widowhood by years

Today is Sunday, 26 April, and I find myself reflecting on my first Sunday, 26 April. It was 17 years ago, and it marked the…

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Posted on21 February 202625 April 2026Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations

Reflections at 52

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It’s hard to believe that 52 is here already. It feels like only a decade ago that I was the answer to life, the universe,…

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Posted on30 November 20251 March 2026Everyday Life

Giving thanks for love and friends

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Thanksgiving has come and gone once again. This time, Thanksgiving was also Paul’s birthday, and that is always a little hard for me. You see,…

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Posted on21 May 20251 July 2025Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

20 years of love and loss

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Today marks two decades since I married the love of my life. Twenty years. The number hangs in the air, heavy with memories, yet surprisingly…

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Posted on26 April 202530 June 2025Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

16 years: A journey of grief, growth, and gratitude

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Sixteen years. Wh​en I say that number out loud, it still feels both impossibly long and, at the same time, like just yesterday. Sixteen years…

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Posted on21 February 202523 June 2025Everyday Life

51: Beyond the half-century mark – A look back and a leap forward

by Just Frances4 Comments on 51: Beyond the half-century mark – A look back and a leap forward

Well, here I am! Another year has rushed by, and today I find myself turning 51. It feels like just yesterday I was celebrating my…

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Posted on15 February 202523 June 2025Everyday Life, Musings & Ramblings

JustFrances.com at fifteen

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Wow! JustFrances.com hit the 15-year milestone today! I don’t know that I expected that when I first registered the domain, but here I am, marking…

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Posted on21 May 202424 September 2024Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Winning the bronze: 19 years of “married life”

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Today marks 19 years since I became Mrs Ryan. And much like every year when this day comes around, I am feeling quite sad that…

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Posted on26 April 202424 September 2024Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

The years in between

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Today marks 15 years since my husband’s death and that means I am doing a lot of reflecting. Some of that reflection is about the…

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Posted on1 February 20244 July 2024Everyday Life

Hopes of home

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In the past several months, I have hinted at Big Things that are afoot – and I even came close to saying outright said that…

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Posted on21 May 202324 September 2024Widow Life

An adult marriage

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Today marks 18 years since I became Mrs Ryan; since I laughed my way into a happy marriage as the Priest placed “odds” on our…

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Posted on26 April 2023Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

The lingering pain of widowhood

by Just Frances8 Comments on The lingering pain of widowhood

Another year has passed without my beloved husband and my heart aches from his absence these 14 years. Yes, the pain is softer now. But…

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Posted on20 February 202318 June 2023Everyday Life, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

On the cusp of ageing

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I found a photo of Mum a couple of months ago, taken the day after her 48th birthday. As I looked at it, I smiled…

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Posted on5 November 20226 November 2022Everyday Life, Musings & Ramblings

Rebel diarist: My journey from “Dear Diary” to a life record

by Just Frances4 Comments on Rebel diarist: My journey from “Dear Diary” to a life record

I have long kept a journal or diary of some fashion or another. Indeed, I began dabbling in the art of journalling as a young…

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Posted on21 May 2022Chronic Illness, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Remembering red flags: Happy 17th anniversary, to me

by Just Frances2 Comments on Remembering red flags: Happy 17th anniversary, to me

Today marks 17 years since I became Mrs Ryan. And despite the absence of Mr Ryan, I like to mark this day as it was…

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Posted on26 April 202216 June 2022Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

13 years of missing Paul; of missing me

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It’s now been 13 years since my beloved husband, Paul, died suddenly and unexpectedly. It’s a strange feeling, being this far from the immediate grief…

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Posted on21 February 202228 February 2022Everyday Life, Fitness & Exercise, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Blessings at 48

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Today, I am 48 years old. And today hurts. Not because I’m 48, but rather because I am now officially older than my late husband.…

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Posted on27 November 202128 November 2021Widow Life

Sixty years ago

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Today should be a big celebration to mark my husband’s 60th birthday. But, as with too many years before, he is not here to celebrate;…

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Posted on26 November 202128 September 2022Academic Life

The dream job: Frances the University Lecturer

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I have a new job; one that I have dreamt of for more than 20 years. Yes, as of this week, I am a Lecturer*…

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Posted on18 September 2021Everyday Life, Musings & Ramblings

20 years of Scotland

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Today marks 20 years since I first arrived in Scotland for “just one year” as a study abroad student. At the time, I never expected…

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About Just Frances

Just Frances is a personal website maintained by me, Frances Ryan. I am a quirky runner, writer, thinker, drinker, crafter, adventurer, and researcher. I am also a daughter, sister, aunty, friend, and widow. But mostly, I am just Frances. (She/Her)

I blog about my life, including my travels and adventures, my experiences with PKD and ITP, my life as a young(ish) widow, and my life in general, really. Learn more about the topics I write about here.

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